BACK TO BLOGGER....

About five years ago I left this page, I moved to another country to find my roots, turns out that by now I still can't find them... Looking at my old posts on this page I realized how immature I was, yes! I'm still immature but hey! it is a personal blog so who cares??? So, the questions is : Is this going to be a blog about anything interesting??? Well, the answer is simple... I really don't know if you are going to be interested on my blog, perhaps I should tell you that it is most likely to be about my personal experiences now that I'm on my 20's, Yes in fact I am 22 years old. Also, there might be times when I will be posting other things other than my personal life. So, whoever you are, you are welcome to come, comment, share experiences etc. Hopefully you will enjoy my posts. P.S. If you personally know me, please let me know... THANKS... Love, Mariposita.

im back but i wish i could be away...

ok. let me start with this...

Many of you may think that I´m a really good girl but the ones that really now me know that I´m not...

So let me explain, a few years ago I started to live my vida loca, and just yesterday I realized that I´ve been wasting my time and my life...I had one of those moral reflection or however you wanna call it and I can say that I truly, honestly regret all the things that I´ve done...

I know that there´s no turn back, but hopefully I´ll be strong enough to change before it´s too late (if it isn´t already)...

THIS IS WHAT THE WORLD HAVE TURNED TO... ARE YOU ONE OF THEM????
THINK ABOUT THEM... HELP THEM...

Also look at this page but get ready for a piece of reality... (Disturbing images)

http://spiritlessons.com/Documents/abortion/abortion.htm

I don't know... but sometimes... everything is up side down....

There are things that we hope to be in one way and come out the other way. There are times that we expect something but we get the unexpected. AND there are times when you are so happy that you think nothing is going to ruin it but THAT IS NOT TRUE!!!!

Personally, I was happy about my life now, for a moment, but something unexpected and kind of creepy appeared in my life and its shadow just ruins my happiness. Here’s the situation (this sounds stupid and not like me but it is frustrating, I really don’t care that much but it bothers me.) ONE GUY AND TWO GIRLS (I know stupid situation). I’m the present, she’s the past. She’s pissed and I’m surprise. And the weird/annoying/creepy/bad (and other synonyms you can think about) part of this is that we know each other and we were friends.

I have to mention that I had no idea about this, I swear, I had no idea but it’s frustrating because she’s very upset and I just don’t know what to do (well yes I know but I’m not sure and I don’t know I just feel weird but as my friends say “worry about you because others aren’t” and yeah). I’m really surprise and I still can’t believe it…

Gotita? Black rose?

From a mind that doesn't mind at all

Have you ever felt like everything is wrong or that nothing comes out good?
The world just slapped you in the face and screamed at you "wake up!!!!?
Have you ever felt like nothing is worth it?
Like everything is just out of control and you just want to scream and scream?
People don't understand you, they don't listen, they don't pay attention...
Sometimes everything is confusing and you just sit there thinking about nothing.
Don't want to see anybody but you want someone to care...just care...

It's like a hole in your heart that nothing in Earth can fulfill...
you feel depress, melancholic, angry, stupid,irritated and tired of the world's crap...
No one cares, no one gives a damn about everything, all people are selfish...
AT THE END YOU JUST WANT TO BE ALONE... WHERE NO PEOPLE EXIST EXCEPT YOU...

It's a painful feeling that I have to face every single day, every day in my life
there's people that make me feel like this, I don't understand why people can't be mature.
I just want them to shut up and listen but they don't realize it,but the worst of all
of this is that...

I AM ONE OF THE PEOPLE THAT DON'T UNDERSTAND because I don't realize that everyone is
different and no one is perfect...

That is my mistake... I have high expectations and all of the time I get disappointed.

Love yourself...a piece of my mind

Many times people led others take advantage and that's isn't right.

One of the most important things to learn in life is to love yourself. Many people aren't going to love you but in that case you need to know how to love yourself. When things aren't right and the only way you can be happy is by being loved, don't wait for someone because you can love yourself too. Your self love will never go away or betrayed you.

Look at yourself in the mirror and admire what you see (don't get too consider though jk lol), always have respect for yourself and don't put yourself down. Trust me there is someone that loves you, you just need to find it, but for the moment live your life.

Look around you and be happy...
trust yourself, you are worth it...
but mostly...
never say I can't and live your life!!!!

Hello!!!!

Hi!!!

Well since I'm not in my English class anymore, I want to keep my blog so my ex-classmates know what's up!

Well, right now I'm super extra busy!!! I'm in a club (drama-club)planning a play. My meetings are on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. Later, I stay in school until six doing the play The Lion king. (Angie too!) I have to dance and sing which is cool for me except for the singing part (I don't know how to sing but I try).

Overall, I'll try to take some time off and work on my blog. I'm planing to post lots of things related to universal problems and maybe some poetry and philosophers that I find interesting.

The Bluest Eye-Expository Essay

In this book the author talks about an African American girl that wants blue eyes because she thinks that by having blue eyes, people will think that she’s beautiful. She grew up in a time when white skin and color eyes were consider beautiful while black skin and no-blue eyes weren’t. During the period of time, racism was common. There were the KKK and discrimination towards all minorities but mostly towards African Americans. Many people suffered during this time.

One of the suffering ways were the low self-steeem of people. As we see in "The Bluest eye" Pecola wants blue eyes so people around her would think she's pretty. She thinks that blue eyes are the only thing that people like and appreciate. This is due to the low self-steem on Pecola. During this period of time beauty was considered to be white only.

People often don't think that there's a solution to racism but it is hard to find it. During all this time people have acted worst than ANIMALS killing and making others suffer. According to http://xroads.virginia.edu/~ug02/NewYorker/Race.html; "The 1930's were a turbulent time for race relations in America. Despite the decline of such organizations as the Ku Klux Klan (which had enjoyed renewed support during the 1910's and 1920's) racism was as strong as ever in the Southern states. Furthermore, as this picture alluedes to, the increased presence of Black Americans in Northern cities (where many had migrated during WWII and especially during the Depression) resulted in increased tension between the races there as well. This image of a drunken African-American passed out in the middle of the city reflects the apprehension which many rich white New Yorkers felt at the the presence of so many blacks in what they considered to be their city." Basically this tells how big was racism in that time, ofcourse this affected African Americans' lives in many ways.

First, they don't have trust on themselves. They basically believe what they hear from other people or hope to be trated equally but that doesn't happens. Second, they just felt down by the propaganda as shown in http://xroads.virginia.edu/~ug02/NewYorker/Race.html. And very last as we see in the Bluest Eye, the perception of beauty goes beyond real life. White skin and blue eyes were the only thing that Pecola wanted and what others saw or perceive in people.

Overall this book is a good perception of how a girl lived during this time and the reflection of people against each other. When I read this book I was impress on how out-of-real were the lifes of this characters. Racism still a big deal in this world.

Literary Threasure and Response

Sor Juana Ines De La Cruz- You Men

Silly, you men-so very adept
at wrongly faulting womankind,
not seeing you're alone to blame
for faults you plant in woman's mind.

After you've won by urgent plea
the right to tarnish her good name,
you still expect her to behave—
you, that coaxed her into shame.

You batter her resistance down
and then, all righteousness, proclaim
that feminine frivolity,
not your persistence, is to blame.

When it comes to bravely posturing,
your witlessness must take the prize:
you're the child that makes a bogeyman,
and then recoils in fear and cries.

Presumptuous beyond belief,
you'd have the woman you pursue
be Thais when you're courting her,
Lucretia once she falls to you.

For plain default of common sense,
could any action be so queer
as oneself to cloud the mirror,
then complain that it's not clear?

Whether you're favored or disdained,
nothing can leave you satisfied.
You whimper if you're turned away,
you sneer if you've been gratified.

With you, no woman can hope to score;
whichever way, she's bound to lose;
spurning you, she's ungrateful—
succumbing, you call her lewd.

Your folly is always the same:
you apply a single rule
to the one you accuse of looseness
and the one you brand as cruel.

What happy mean could there be
for the woman who catches your eye,
if, unresponsive, she offends,
yet whose complaisance you decry?

Still, whether it's torment or anger—
and both ways you've yourselves to blame—
God bless the woman who won't have you,
no matter how loud you complain.

It's your persistent entreaties
that change her from timid to bold.
Having made her thereby naughty,
you would have her good as gold.

So where does the greater guilt lie
for a passion that should not be:
with the man who pleads out of baseness
or the woman debased by his plea?

Or which is more to be blamed—
though both will have cause for chagrin:
the woman who sins for money
or the man who pays money to sin?


So why are you men all so stunned
at the thought you're all guilty alike?
Either like them for what you've made them
or make of them what you can like.

If you'd give up pursuing them,
you'd discover, without a doubt,
you've a stronger case to make
against those who seek you out.

I well know what powerful arms
you wield in pressing for evil:
your arrogance is allied
with the world, the flesh, and the devil!


When I first read this poem I really got into it. It was in my AP Spanish class, I was reading along and suddenly I understood everything she was saying and she was absolutely right. I felt a strong connection with the author and understood the meaning of the poem. What got me more interested is that she wrote this poem when women had no rights. This is the poem that I'll always keep.

This poem is about men and how selfish and non-understandable they can be. The poem talks about the different ways a man can be and how they want what they don't deserve. like in this line, "not seeing you're alone to blame
for faults you plant in woman's mind." This line basically tells them what to expect in the rest of the poem. Saying they are the cause why women are the way they are and later want them to be someone else. This poem really tells what now we can't express.

The poem's stronger line, in my opinion, is "the woman who sins for money
or the man who pays money to sin?" because that's how life is. If a man is with many women then he's cool and others admire him but if a woman does the same thing then she's a whore or even worst. Virginity plays an important role in a woman's life but not on a man's life. That's how society looks at this situation. There are still many things and problems in where men amd women are unequal.

Overall, I really like this poem because I feel connected to it. It is a pretty strong poem and every woman can be connected and feel what she felt. I would definetly never forget this poem.

Personal Narrative With Song lyrics.

During my life all I’ve done is hurt people even though is not on purpose.
I choose this song: Sorry, Blame it on Me by Akon.

When I was 13 years old, I ditch school for the first time. It was easy for me because my mom never checked my attendance records. I wasn’t a bad girl back then because I didn’t used drugs and my grades were A’s and like 3 or 4 B’s only. I was a good student, I was between the 5 smartest students in class and ditching didn’t affect me at all. I fail two classes but that was because I was lazy and stupid. What’s funny is that the classes I failed were the easiest ones: Physical Education (PE) and Spanish. However, I make up those classes and passed them with A’s.

There was a problem in me and I just kept ditching classes but I didn’t fail any other class again. But the ditching was still there and sooner or later my mom was going to find it out. That didn’t stop me and kept doing it. Then, the unexpected came and my mom finally paid attention to my absences. She was so mad about it that she didn’t talk to me for almost 2 weeks. When she finally decided to talk with me again the only thing that she told me that she was ashamed of my actions and that I just did the unexpected. I was sad but at the same time I wanted to tell her that I did it because she never let me go out with my friends. She had me living like a nun, all the time inside four walls. I wanted to go out and I did it . But I didn't had the courage to tell her all of that, so I just stood quiet.

After that time I kept doing what I wanted but this time I was more careful and till now she doesn't know the things that I've done. I know that if she finds that out, she'll never talk to me again but this time for a month (if I'm lucky). I know that I do bad things but I know how to control myself.

" I realize everything I do is affecting the people around me
So I want to take this time out and apologize for things I have done
And things that have not occurred yet"

Sometimes I get the feeling of telling her all the truth about myself but I know that if I do that I'll break her heart and I don't want to do it. She has been a great mom, she supports me in school and we have a good relationship. She has mistakes too, all people do. There are things that are like clouds in a sunny day saying that is going to rain, but still she's great. I had never told her that I love her, I don't know why but I feel weird when I'm about to say it and at the end I don't say it.

" Sorry for the things that I did not say
Like how you are the best thing in my world"

There were times when I just insulted my mom in my mind. It's like if hate and madness were controling me by bloking all the other things in my mind. I know that what I did was wrong, but in that moment you don't think, you just act.

"I'm sorry for the times I disrespect
I'm sorry for the wrong things that I've done"

I doesn't matter what I say to excuse myself at the end she's always right, somehow she always is. I'm trying to change but its hard once you get used to it. So one day I puted this song and I remember what I have done and change it. Eventhough I can't change the past, I can change the future.


"I understand that there are some problems
And I am not too blind to know
All the pain you kept inside you
Even though you might not show
If I can apologize for being wrong
Then it's just a shame on me
I'll be the reason for your pain and you can put the blame on me"

All I know is that I'm the cause of all the effects in my life.

My own Version -Where I'm from(George elle lyon)

I'm from corn and earth
strong and still,
from water and air
changing through time.

I'm from the Spanish language
from rape and tears,
from the color brown
between black and white.

I'm from Aztecs and Mayas
from flesh and earth,
from nature I'm from
living and dying.

From the sun and ocean
I am strong
I'm from the corn and earth.

Imagery: Languague that appeals to one or more of the five senses.

Stubborn

Stubborn means difficult to manage or supress,refusing to agree or give in and unreasonably obstinate. This word is used as an adjective, for example; he is a stubborn child and he has a stubborn horse. Stubborn's origin is from 1350-1400s but it is unknown from where or from what word it comes.

I learned this word in my English class when I was in the eleven grade. We were reading the book "From Mice and Men", I really don't remember the author but it was a good book. At first I had no idea of what it meant until my teacher told us the definition and used in a sentence. I was impress of how this word meant so much and now I know how to use it in my everyday life.

Poem-Troughout Our Culture

People are coming and going
From somewhere to anywhere
From countries to countries,
With a hope for a better life.

A dream to live
A better way of life,
And with the inspiration
From people from the past.

Our fight is still going
But now we are stronger!

Many suffered injustice
But nobody heard them cry,
They were just a Latino more
With no voice at all.

In the fields they worked
From sunrise till down
Because that was their only choice,
But now it is different
Thanks to those who fought.

Still now we don't appreciate
How hard it was
But we do know
Who we really are.

Wild Essay- Killing Ourselves

One of the things that are important for me is our environment. Nature is one of the most things that we luckily have but we’re destroying it. With the expansion of cities nature is becoming smaller. Pollution, global warming and extinctions are consequences of our carelessness on Nature. We all need to do something to protect and save Nature. Something small is better that nothing. Save ourselves means save nature.

With the advance technology that is around the world nature is being affected. Now the ozone’s cap has bigger hole in it and that lets the ultraviolet light toward us that affects our skin. Pollution is the main cause for this problem. Plants of pollution, Cars and fabrics pollute more and more causing many medical problems in our body. The air has high levels of carbon dioxide that affects our respiratory system. As we advance in technology we take over forest and convert them in cities or we just take what we need and leave. The contamination of the ocean and earth is a big issue. We have less clean water to drink and fewer trees that will give us air to breath. But who cares? People go around worry about their own life not about what’s around them. If they have to cut down trees so they can have a house they’ll be glad to do it.

We’ve seen in the news that global warming is dangerous and some say that it might be false but this is the time to prevent it. The weather is changing dramatically like in this past week. There were days that it rain and the sky was full of gray clouds and the next day the bright sun came out with a clean sky. Some days are really cold and the next day gets really hot. This change is proving of how the climate is changing. Throughout time many species are being extinct and many more are in danger of extinction. The massacre of animals has been around, an example of that are sharks that men are killing in the ocean only to get their upper tail and most of the times they throw the sharks alive to drown. However, most of us don’t care because it doesn’t affect us nor help us. Trees, plants and animals population is getting small and add that to the unnecessary waste of water, light and others sources that we take without any consciousness.

With all of these selfish actions, at the end, the ones that are going to be in danger of extinction will be human race. There aren’t going to be plants or animals that will feed us or protect us. Little by little we are killing ourselves by killing what’s around us. We may blame each other but we all have the fault for wasting resources and not doing anything to save nature. People rather have a big house and a cool car than an average house so it won’t take that much energy and a hybrid car so it’ll help the environment. Most of us waste everything thinking that there is enough to waste but at the end nothing is going to be left in Earth.

One way to compensate what we take from nature can be by planting seeds or taking care of plants that are already growing. For every fruit that we eat, we take the seeds and plant them so it can grow and be one more tree. Saving water, light and other sources can also help. And probably the most important thing to do is recycling. Recycle bottles, cans, paper etc and the best part for that is that you get paid for recycling! But most people aren’t doing a thing to save it; they just care about money and destroy forest without any concern. Nature is dying little by little and we are dying too with nature. At the end what will happen is going to be the consequences of our actions.

Academic Autobiography

First, the person that supported me was a friend that gave me political books to read. He has been the only person that supported me academically besides my teachers. Now, only my teachers support me and my girlfriends. I went to Pio Pico Middle School, which is located at Arlington and Venice.

My favorite subject is Dance because I get to learn new cultures and a little of history through dance. Also because it keeps me in shape and I learn new steps as well as dances. Besides dance, my favorite subject is Biology because I love to learn about nature and how it reproduces and works. One of my influential teachers is my Spanish teacher because he tells me the things straight without trying to make in soft. I personally like that because it shows you how important your problems are and the tone gives you the priority to solve them. Also he finds a way to talk to you and helps you solve your problems; he doesn’t solve them for you. Also my math teacher in L.A. High, he was the same but he gave me advices on how to study to do great on the test.

What I think I learn the most was on the lesson that my life skills teacher gave to the class. She told us her story, about her life, her education and the idioms that she speaks. I remember that she speaks about 5 languages and went to different schools to learn them and to learn about cultures but she decided that she wanted to teach and became a teacher. I think it inspired me to be interested in cultures and languages from other places. In the future I see myself in school finishing my nurse studies and dance studies. Getting a job as a nurse and if possible working as a dancer. Also If I get the opportunity I would like to study child development because I like that subject and I think it is very interesting and be a professional in that subject.

I really don’t remember at what age I learn to speak or read. I’ve passed all of my English classes with A’s and B’s so I think that is good. My grades have always been A’s or B’s, I don’t remember getting a C but maybe I did. My goals for this class is to pass it, to improve my writing and to learn what I need to learn, if possible learn more than necessary. What I expect from you as a teacher is that you have the patient to work with me but of course all teachers are patient so basically I don’t demand much.

My Reading Autobiography

First of all, I haven’t had a lot of reading in my life. My parents were always working so they didn’t have the time to spend in my reading. Most of the time, my family was busy so I had to understand them. I try to help them by not being an obstacle in their routines. However, I think I had a regular reading in my life thanks to my teachers and friends. Even thought I didn’t read too much it didn’t affected me that much either.

When I learn how to read, I tried to read all the books that I could. But most of the time I didn’t last with a book because I had no one to help me. I end up quitting because no one took the time to read with me. There were sometimes that my teachers helped me but they also had to help my classmates so I didn’t help me that much either but I understand it. I don’t blame them because they had things to do. I just didn’t read that much, and as a matter of fact my family had issues and they couldn’t be patient to improve my reading.

During elementary school I only read in class. My teachers read to us and sometimes pick us to read. We read about animals and nature. One of them was about a tree that during the spring wouldn’t flower till the end and because of that the other trees made fun of the tree. Besides that, I didn’t read by myself because I didn’t had someone to help me and to do it by myself didn’t worked. My reading back then was really short.

In high school I read a lot because of my English class, we read short stories but mostly books. The books that I read are “The House on Mango Street” It was about a girl that couldn’t live in one place and make friends in one school because her parents move too often to work. One that caught my attention was “Always Running” because it was about a man that wrote about his life when he was in a gang. The one that I liked the most was “In Cold Blood” by Capote. It was about two men that killed a family and were persecuted, capture and sentenced to death. This book is the one that I liked most because is based on a true story and the story itself is very interesting.

Honestly I don’t have that much time to read because I have other things to do around my home. But when I do read, the first thing that I do is sit in a quiet place and read. I do and finish everything that I need to do first in order to read in peace. Also sometimes my dog sits with me and he helps me concentrate in my reading. He sits there and just looks at me and fall asleep, I don’t know why but that helps me a lot. My reading preferences are simple. I like to read about crimes and fantasy but mostly about cultures and customs. But I am an open mind person and I’m willing to read anything, from fiction to science-fiction all the way to politics.

The people that inspired me are my teachers because the help me even when they had other things to do and didn’t had the time. All of then made it interesting. The person that turned me on reading the most was a friend. He reads about politics and other law books. He used to say that when you read a book, something from that book stays with you and that something is useful later in your life. Of course, it depends on the kind of book that you read but it applies to most of them. He used to tell me about the books that he read but they didn’t stay in my mind because they were mostly about politics and law.

Mostly I used to get books from my friend. He borrowed me books about everything but in the books there was always one about politic or law. Now I can get them in the library or I could just buy some books. Other than that I don’t get books because I don’t have time to read. I can barely get enough sleep so I just don’t have the time to read. I wake up at seven o’ clock in the morning and go to bed at twelve midnight and sometimes even at one pm. If I had the time I’ll read more often.

When I read, somehow I connect myself with the book. For example, when I read about teen pregnancy I just felt like there was no way that I would end up pregnant. Also when I read “Always running” I felt a little more mature because it kind of teaches a lesson to teens about gangs. But in Capotes’ book I felt like reading it over and over again. It caught so much my attention that I even saw the movie twice, even though the book was better than the movie. When I read I feel the excitement of learning something important or just to be satisfied with the book. Maybe the book changes me in a positive way. I just feel that when someone reads a book his or her life changes, not dramatically but in a small way.

Introduction

My name is Gabriela Nava Monica, I am seventeen years old and I’m a senior. Before coming to West Adams I went to Los Angeles High school and I also went to Pio Pico middle school. My favorite class is Dance because there is where I take out all my energy whether good or bad. I also act but not that much. I took drama 1A/B and then I did the play Zoot Suit. However I mostly like dancing, I even perform several times in school and once in Beverly hills-Hilton for MLA.

I also care about Nature even thought I am a consumer but at least I try to do something for it like planting plants. I am against war, any kind of war but especially if innocent people are dying and because bombs and other weapons destroy our environment. Also I don’t tolerate when people kill or make animals suffer for fun or for selfish profits. I love pets especially dogs because I have two, they’re mix poodles, one is 2 years old and the other one just turned 1 year. I only eat chicken, fruits and vegetables but I also eat a lot of junk food but not from fast restaurants.

I am a very quiet person but once I start talking I can’t stop and I do know how to control my self before it gets to that point. I’m responsible but there are times that I give up and I just don’t do anything. Mostly I’m open mind. I enjoy any kind of music except rap or heavy metal. My favorite depends of the mood that I’m in, it can be romantic one day and the next can be rock. I like horror movies, in particular if there are zombies in it but I also like other movies, pretty much all kinds of movies. I don’t do any sports but I do walk every morning to school from Venice and Western. I am kind of feminist and communist but don’t get scare I don’t believe in dictators.

Overall I’m hard to understand because my life is full of contradictions. Mostly I don’t mind if people are immature but when it gets to the point where I just can’t stand it anymore, I get out of the classroom for 5 minutes otherwise I explode. I mean, I just don’t understand why people can’t be mature when is necessary, is not that hard. I guess that’s how seniors saw me when I was in 10th grade. But anyways; I hope my experience in your class and with my classmates will be good or at least ok. If something from me bothers you, please let me know and I’ll try to find a solution to it.

Violence Essay

Violence is a big problem in our lives. There is violence in the streets, schools and in our own home. There is physical violence and psychological violence around us. Both of them are dangerous and have terrific consequences even though they are different. However, we care more about physical violence due to the visible marks.

Violence is everywhere, from streets to the privacy of our homes. In school kids fight for what they think is right, the most common reason is gangs or clicks. They fight to show that they are better and that their gang/click "deserves respect." Like one of my friend used to fight a lot just because they looked at her bad or that insulted her gang. It didn’t matter who she was fighting with, she just fought till one of them couldn’t take it anymore. That kind of violence affects people around violent people. Like for example, in home they just aren’t patient to do something or they just go out wondering alone or with other people. And most of the times they get in trouble.

Physical violence is the kind of violence that we see the most. When we talk about violence we think of people fighting whether with their hands or with weapons or knifes. The outcome of most of these cases is people getting injured or killed. Most of the time, this fighting’s proofs are scars, bruises or wounds and when we see this on a person we automatically think of violence. Physical violence is one of the most dangerous types of violence because it can lead to death. However, there is other type of violence that is as dangerous as physical violence but we don’t notice it at all and it has the same outcomes.

Psychological violence is probably the most common violence in our daily life. Psychological violence doesn’t have visible scars or wounds but they are in our mind. An example of psychological violence is when a parent is always insulting their kids. They tell them that they are worthless, they can’t succeed or wish that they could be like someone else or better. This kind of violence lowers people self esteem till the point that they believe it and sometimes they even commit suicide or at least try to. It affects all kinds of people and is doesn’t matter who the person is, it still affects that person. Everybody at some point is victim of psychological violence.

Fighting, stealing, killing, bad discussions and arguments are different kinds of violence but all of them have a solution. We just need to see through history to find that violence is a big issue. War is the perfect example but war always has an excuse to be violent -“Freedom”- that is supposed to be the reason of war. Overall, violence in general is affecting our life but the kind of violence that we can prevent is psychological violence by seeking for help. Violence is always going to be present in our lives but at some point we have to stop and think what we should do to prevent it. It isn’t going to disappear in three seconds but it is going to be less.